Going Mad With Baby Colic?
When it comes to infant colic, the concern is not so much for the baby but rather the parent. Colic isn’t a sickness or disease that plagues the baby. A baby is said to be colic when it is healthy but cries for hours on end without any known reason. Yes, colic does not indicate that the baby is sick. Health wise, I would dare say the parents are more at risk then the baby because they would be suffering from exhaustion, sleep deprivation and trying hard not to lose their mind.
Babies cry for all sorts of reasons. That’s why some parents, especially new parents, wonder if their baby really has colic or their baby is just fussy. Parents that are colic survivors will simply reply “oh, you will know.” Colic crying differs from a hunger cry or any other cry. It is highly intensed. You won’t call it crying but rather screaming that can burst your eardrum. It can also go on for many hours. Whatever you do does not soothe the baby. There are other accompanying colic symptoms such as flushed cheeks, hard belly, fists clenched and legs pulled up to their stomachs. Colic can begin when baby is as young as three weeks old. About 3-4 months old, the colic will start to disappear. Most people report evenings as being the worse time. But not every colicky baby is the same. Some cry anytime or even worse, all the time.
The priority of any parent who is battling infant colic is to find a remedy that works. Unfortunately, if you ask a doctor how to do it, they may give you a disappointing answer. You see, medically, they do not know what causes colic. There are several theories but essentially, the question to what causes colic is still a mystery. One theory is that baby is suffering from too much gas in the tummy. Then there is also the idea that baby is adjusting to life outside the womb. Even the kind of milk powder given to baby can turn out to be the root of the problem. Is there one theory that proves true in all cases? Not really. Thus, if you seek a colic baby remedy, you may have to try several solutions before you find one that works.
Here’s a list of things that have been recommended by colic survivors. Keep in mind there’s no guarantee it will work for your crying baby.
1. Swaddling baby
2. Baby wearing
3. Baby massage
4. Use white noise such as the sound of the vacuum
5. Give baby a pacifier. Some people may not agree with this idea but if it can restore back some peace into your life, why not?
6. Use a baby gizmo such as bouncy seats or swings that come with a vibrating mode.
7. Use a warm bath to soothe the baby.
8. Change baby’s surroundings by taking baby out of the house.
9. Use the power of music. If you can’t sing, get a nice CD.
Well, those are ideas on how to pacify the baby. Let’s now consider solutions to help the parents. How can parents help themselves? The first step is to stop blaming yourself. The fact that your baby is inconsolable does not mean you are an incompetent parent. Also, don’t be stubborn and refuse help from others. Engage the help of your spouse, church members, neighbours, friends, family and maybe even a baby sitter. There is also nothing wrong in taking a little time out, even if it means leaving baby to scream it’s lungs out for a few minutes. Remember, it’s important that you care for yourself too. Don’t feel like you are being selfish for doing so. If you do not feel good about yourself, for certain you will be unable to be an effective parent. Another idea is to connect with other parents that have been in the same boat as you. Talking to someone who can sympathize with you can be comforting. You can find such parents in your community or the internet. Having a support group that knows what you are going through will make your burden easier to bear.
I’m sure many people have tried to comfort you by saying that these challenging colic days will soon be over. I understand that when you are going through it, time just cannot go by faster. If you now lost for ideas, check out this one more colic baby remedy that could change your life. You may feel like life is against you right now. Make the best of things by being more optimistic.
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